I cant even Imagine the Agony you two are going through, not many words would even be slightly appropriate.
But, i will say i believe in youre two Resolve, and i know Everything will be ok in the end. With loving parents like youre selves, and youre Dedication to youre family. Everything will Be ok in the end im sure.
Take Care Eggar, send my Regards to youre Wife, and remember <<{MFF}>> and {OF} are ALWAYS here for you. <<{MFF}>> is more than a bunch of Gamers, were a Family of friends that look out for eachother.